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Elsie Uzoma Okpocha wife of popular Nigerian comedian Basketmouth has revealed why the couples parted ways. In a video posted on her handle on Instagram, while advising young ladies on how to choose a husband, the ex basketmouth wife gave clues as to why they got separated.
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90% Women believes that a financially buoyant man is a "responsible man" but not, being responsible is more than being financially buoyant alone, not all women would tell you what they really want in marriage expecting a man to observe it, a man claims in his mind he is the head and a woman must respect that even the believed status his killing the long gathered joy. I don't know how human would "catch wind of man and pin it down"
There are some things, God forbid bad thing, that surface up along in marriages which we have to look away and just focus on giving and guiding the children towards an appropriate and expected state in life, because, attending to some distracting issue leads marriages to a place even worse than the topic of the issues…. If I to be mentioning them. You knew some…
You two driver cannot handle a single steering, even the two steering aircraft had coherence configurations, inasmuch we are not of same blood, mother and likes, expect differences, God forbid, if a man died, won't she move on with her life, even perfectly, only God knows. Viceversa.
Nowadays, we are not respecting culture anymore, we claims equal rights, circumstances of goals and pursues in life are even storming against the positivity and position of human nature and dues, mind us, it leads us somewhere. May God help us and guide us.
Sir, I think that most of the answers to the questions you are seeking are found in the interview they made a few years ago. The video is in YouTube.
So she didn't see the red flag before marrying him? so she didn't use her head den.
She sounds bitter,most women should know that most of their relationships and marriage issues stems from hypergamy,if a woman decides to choose a husband based on their fame or/and status then such woman should know that she might be sharing that man as a lot of other women want him too,everyone’s choice in life comes with a price but it looks like a lot of women want it all but only have little to bring to the table,it shows she has little respect for the man by saying “marry someone that have sense”,if she had sense she wouldn’t have married him then,or perhaps she was in it for the money and fame.
Even b4 i watched liked and subscribed
Building an empire from nothing does not make a good husband. Having sense in marriage is a virtue sir, it is not all and butterflies
I don't believe in fighting for someone who doesn't want to be fought for. Don't chase a man or woman who will not chase you. Both parties should always meet in the middle.
Let me tell everyone here the truth; Marriage is not easy… You know why? Trying to build a career and family is a different world entirely. It ain't easy! She talks about game night🤔 Mehh, I don't think there is a need to copy other peoples marriage. If he says you are suppose to know when he is angry, then he is right. I mean what do you expect from 8years of dating and 12years of marriage… Damn, you should be able to recite him like a poem…
I abegee I dey vess…
She is so useless in talking and she wanted to be in control.
Guy,she is not genuine as a wife.
As in most marriages, most people did not know what they were doing when getting married, and most certainly how to choose the right person to marry. It's not necessarily him vs her.
She forget respect,
It just annoying how in africa people blame the woman when there is a divorce do u think a woman just want a divorce after having kids do u know what she has been through before that decision was made and someone said she cant see a man like him again and who told you most of this women want to get married after getting divorce its high time afticans stop blaming women becos women go through alot.
You see this someone that will not say hurtful things part. Omo Basket is capable of saying such honestly. I recall watching their one year anniversary video in collab with one TV and the things coming out of his mouth about his wife wasn't funny. I was in secondary school when I watched it. I was so confused because I did not understand what was going on. Looking back now I think I understand her.
She wasn't discipline enough to stay in the marriage. She's now a Counsellor 😅
She is lieing.
What's your business in reporting their break up …aproko
Does she have the fear of God.
Tell me how this woman make sense and has a fear of God, omor nothing come out here, a person way him relationship break the advice who na? Lol, so basically she knew also abi rubblish
I don't understand how people are just assuming they know what went wrong between them based on a five minute video she did. Nawa ohh
She's dreaming jare make she wake up 😁
Her body language speaks more of not submissive, high horseness, not home Maker even though BasketMouth is not a saint he has his own negative side too as an African and a Nigerian our women are becoming Terrible, Honestly.
This woman Body Language is not it but I will rather recommend a movie for us "WAR ROOM" 🙏
Marriage is "for better for worse" we always forget that "better" can crash a marriage as much as "worse". Changing circumstances can crash a marriage faster than any other thing.
Business sense and marriage sense are completely two different things. You should know that.
When checking those boxes for your potential spouse make such you meet up to those checked boxes. Who is asking for equity should come with clean hands.
This video is no recent bro.
…Its always the same format from women. I was expecting her to add wife molestation. I will not talk further but 70% of most marriages that crashed are caused by the impatience of women. If you as a woman has all these attributes you have mentioned, it would be difficult for your husband to find an alternative to you. I don't always believe all these trash by women. If you want to hold your man tightly, don't be a feminist. Be feminine! These are two different attributes. Most women are feminist. This is not the intention of God during creation. Your man will lick your ass if you respect him, forgive him and be kind to him as a woman. Just ensure you don't loose the ingredients that makes you a woman he found in the first instance.
Trust me, all these plenty boxes to tick, man better stay not married!
She is asking for way too much , let her try to go and find her perfect husband!
The hidden facts. They had it all. When stardom came, I sense the situation may have changed. It is a different ball game. Chances are that basket mouth began to feel superhuman, expect her to be more understanding of his innuendos of work, women, fame, issues at home, and global travel. There is also a chance she began to feel he his not paying attention to his primary role as a husband and father, perhaps a bit more impatient with dealing with issues they have, and the emotional pain of having to deal with a superstar husband shutting her down every time she wants both of them to really deal with the issues they have. This may then have degenerated into a loss of communication, which usually comes with ego on both parts. Feeling disrespected and disregarded on both their parts. The part where Ese can try to find peace with religion and console herself by dipping herself into religious things. This is the way women blackmail men on their part. "Not too religious" or "A man that has the fear of God". Like he was ever the churchy type or had time to be in church all the time before they got married. On the other part, basket mouth has little to worry about, tonnes of travel, girls, and gigs at his disposal. Can take his mind away from home issues. The outcome is a more disgruntled wife, more insecure, and animosity sets in towards each other, and as this builds up with time, lovers can then begin to actually hate themselves. This break-up is also an outshoot of what celebrities are now selling to themselves that It is okay to break up and destroy the institution of marriage. The moment the P-Square situation started, I knew more divorces were going to come. For comedy, when Julius's wife left, it kind of made it feel it's okay and if baba's marriage can crash, why won't his industry children suffer the same fate. Now people are beginning to understand or feel that the world won't come to an end if the marriage breaks up. The ripple effect is what we are seeing. That moron, Yul Edochie, wanted to normalize adultery by thinking it is okay to mitigate it by forcing his wife into polygamy. He also created a very negative situation and the ripple effect of that too will come. Men are now beginning to misbehave and justify their actions or feel it is okay to misbehave like that. He is the worst thing that has happened to the moral compass we use to measure or guide our morality as far as matters of marriage are concerned. Especially with the culture we build from worshipping celebrities. Now the woman is bolder and ready to walk out. You can't eat your cake and have it at the same time. Unfortunately and sadly, I have to advise our women, you need to be strong and courageous because right now, you are the major determinant for whether the marriage will survive the crisis. Women may not like this comment, but at the end of the day you won't be young forever, men are not lining up to scoop divorced women, and the children will suffer the devastating effect of the broken marriage. The strain and pains that come from the divorce usually outweigh the issues that caused the divorce over time. Men will always be men. The whole gragra will wear out over time. They won't be in the limelight till eternity and with age, they will continue to get more sense. But will there be a home when this happens? The majority of us know that if our mothers didn't grow tough skin or made sacrifices for us to have a home we will have all come from broken homes. The modern woman is not different from what our mothers used to be. It is just where they place their value that differs. Our parents placed value in sacrificing themselves for the betterment and sake of their children in all situations in marriage. The modern woman on her part places value on herself and well-being over everything else. That self-worth does not guarantee a better life or mean you won't go through difficulties if you quit your marriage or won't have to deal with a man again in your life. You just have to be able to measure and permutate life. What do I get to gain? Would the children be better for it? Would I get to live a better quality of life? As long as there is a slim chance that your man can change, no matter how little, or difficult it is for you to bear it and the situation, my opinion or advice for the woman just wait and be patient. Gal 5:22. Long-suffering! is different from suffering. It means to bear it with love and be prayerful and ask the spirit of God to touch your husband. If you feel your husband does not have sense, the woman that married a man that does not have sense also did not have sense. It is a mid-marraige crisis. It will pass.
Truth is…. Money is not coming in as before…. Simple.
When she mention about , 1 :patner been a christain, 2 :using head 3: love his or her family…1 which mean her head is not correct she marry for fame and money..dont she know before she married him. 2: hes basketmouth a muslim.? Does she pray for him ? 3: Loving your family is not bad….but you guys forget something…because she talking about being christain…lady . Bible says the man shall leave his family and click to his wife….bible never says click to his family…. This is what all lady's always say…that the man must love her family. Which means you are going against the word of God.
Hmmm! I dont think SA should be blame for coming out with this video. Secondly, I dont think she is bossy as someone commented.
From my school of thought as a married man ( since 1998) , my experiences and as an artist in entertainment world in the pass 35yrs, these are my opinions:
1) When a woman falls in love with an artist based foundation on what she saw on stage about the man(ie the charisma), when they get married, most of the weaknessess of the man will start shooting out and it will take the grace of God for the woman to cope!
2) Greater percentage of we male artists are not mature when it comes to home maintaince! It takes wisdom to handle women(especially those women that are fully educated and outspoken)! Many men got zero tollerance! There are some of us that we carries home that fame we are receives outside into the house! We exoected a woman that have seen us finished to honor and celebrate us like we received from outside , then we will be tempted to display our ego nature!There are lots of time that we need to act like 'mumu' in order to have an healthy home.
3) Greater percentage of women comes into marriage with a bag loads with expectations and immediatelly most of those expectations are not been met, there will be problems! Most time, the wife will endure till the marriage is ten years. Lets take for an example that the woman got married to a man who is a loosed type, she will believe that the man will change by the time they settle down as husband and wife but when it is 10yrs down the line and the man did not change, then the beast nature of the wife will start coming out! THE WORST CHALLENGE THAT MOST TIME AFFECTS MARRIAGE IS – FINANCIAL CHALLENGE! This I can relate with! My first 10yrs in marriage was tough financially but God helped me that at the 11yrs, I started having financial stability and started receiving greater honor from my wife😁😃
4) It is unfortunate that most time we makes outside people happy but immediately we are home, we are other side because we will be so tired and start getting irrational with wife and people at home! WITH NO QUALITY ATTENTION FOR THE WIFE AND CHILDREN. If given , it will be 50percent mechanical.
5) This last one. Most african women ( especially those brought up in a strictly religious way) comes into marriage with HIGH EXPECTATION to build a GODLY HOME! They want a home where family altar/prayers should be observed atleast once in a day(in the morning or before going to bed). The wife would always want to bring tthe children up in Gods way. But if the man lack responsibility in that area, it will be a red signal to that relationship
It is my prayer that God will help them out! There is no perfect home!
You do know the video of her advising about marriage is a video from over 6 months ago right? In other words it's was way before the divorce. It's amazing how y'all make up stories just to grow your channel. And who do you know she suffered all these she said.
The success of a marriage is 70% dependent on the woman. Men, not just Basketmouth are under pressure to succeed and impress their wives. In the process the women like this one see them as careless, selfish, senseless loveless etc. This lady would be a proud, bad mouthed and domineering person. Basketmouth being a street guy can never submit to her. She can never get a better guy. My submission please.
Pain and frustration. Heat of the moment. Statement should be taken on face value.
A man can be smart and still be senseless, having sense is deep…you don't have to agree with her she is the one in the marriage Mr man
I hope the wife didn't learn how to control ur man from auntie Mimi of flatmates 😷
Madam all these your sermon suits marrying an angel….wait for the angel to come and marry you.
I wonder why you women who are not perfect yourself want a perfect man. I can tell that you are all you accused oga of. Am just saying…its psychology
First of all they don’t owe us any explanation about what went wrong.
Second there is a big difference between Business sense and Marital Sense. The only thing they have in common is that they come with a lot of responsibility and sacrifice. It is not common sense.
She is the one who lived with him not you. She is more likely to know if he has sense or not. You are not part of their marriage.
This woman doesn’t appear to be a respectful person. Yea we can see that the husband may not be available but she doesn’t appear to be understanding or patient from what we can see here. She’s disrespectfully telling the world that her husband of 12 years has no sense!
Judging from her perspective, we haven't heard from the other person, she should have waited a little while, divorce is not the answer. Las Las, she's going to be a fairly used…..
First generation of ghetto man / woman will still have some very raw edges.
The second generation gets more ' polishing '.
Basketmouth is also first generation of money, its not easy establishing …stress, long hours, lack of experience etc.
Maybe, his wife can be a bit more accommodating. She should sacrifice some too for the sake of legacy.
But no to physical abuse.
Women , wives, family members…..Good sucess, name etc come with some pain oo. In fact with some evils too.
Holy living, riches from God adds no sorrow.
Regardless of the fact that it takes two to tangle it’s somehow obvious the wife is displaying a boss by the burst out of uncensored words of someone who you claim to have loved more so the father of your kids she’s hurting the kids too unknown to her. She’ll probably end up as a leftover eventually
Let's just say it's time to part ways…. there is time and season for everything under the heaven… believe it or not is time to part ways… that's it…
If you guys where not listing to Andrew Tate is happening anyways women wants to be men,ok we stop going to the military you go do it,we also love washing plates cooking watching tv shows all day and not paying the bills,
Basket mouth or anyone can be intelligent with business skills but once home she needs a husband to support and to lead as a man/ husband and he failed in that area as far as she is concern🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
She day indirectly tell us say basketmouth nor get sense. Lolz.
So they never had good times for 12yrs how easy women forget the lovely times they spend with their partner. If basket mouth was all bad this lady with shine shine eyes will not stay put for that long. Go and make your marriage work maa 12yrs is a long time to leave.
You will always know..so why didn't you know.?
Women women women🙄🤦