[Intimate Affairs] DNA: If some secrets should be maintained for …

This DNA problem is constantly becoming a problematic epidemic. It is not? He is questioning the integrity of our men’s virility and stripping our women from their chastity belts. Even good wives are subjected to a bombastic side eye when their husbands think they don’t look. Until that moment when the great wives have been examined suspiciously, with the dads who control the nose, nails and aerials of their children and tones of the skin of their daughters to see if they correspond to those of their lively and dead ancestors. DNA DNA-DA-CE (DIY-DA-CEO) homemade everywhere. The husbands who have had the desire to fight with their wives are making Snide observations took to hit their wives under the belt. Trust problems are the territories in calm houses.

Are women now more rebellious than before or is it the science that blows the modern wind to expose the hen’s crop? Are there really more “bastards” than the “children of husbands” in many houses these days? Do women open their legs for their concubines under the fertile moons and attract their husbands to incubate the eggs that did not fertilize?

Is there a more fatal way to stab a man in the back than to make him father who is not his and to make him grow children who do not come from his loins?

Do you think I’m doing too many questions? You will be shocked by the number of those questions that go into my head. And it’s not just the normal “How did things go so badly?” request. There are many more worrying, deeply threatening.

Question 1: For example, is it true that more and more men are helped by their wives to become a dad and is not a foolish and crazy sacrifice for a woman?

I know love is sweet, very sweet. That feeling of wanting to do anything for your partner and seeing the world through colored glasses. Yes, we all heard a Cupid arrow a few times, but reality is reality. Marriage is a marathon and if you intend to get to the finish line, you don’t have to take on a baggage that will slow down to you at any time of the race. I know that those who found themselves “covering the shame of her husband” of counting without sperm, counting at a low discount or total helplessness will accuse me of calling me warrior when I did not come across a ferocious battle. Eni ija or ba nii for ara re okunrin. It is easy to call you a strong man until life challenges you to fight. But I don’t think it’s wise for a woman getting out of her wedding to make children for her husband. No, he is not intelligent. It is short -sighted. It is long -term dangerous for all interested parties. It is even worse if it is without man’s consent. Don’t we all know how men are when they catch their women with other men? Ah, they expect women to forgive them 70 times 70 times, or rather every day of their Filande lives. But if their wives are surprised to drop their pants once and let another nozzle fills their tanks, the liquid fire is knocked down with Amadioha’s anger. Some men are already cursing only by reading this. So see, if a man can turn upside down, beat his wife Black and Blue, ask divorce, take a second wife even when all the woman has done is to get out for a “normal dry race”, as you can now go to another man four times or four different men for a “wet race” to bring him four children and not expect serious consequences? Even if it is with its consent and you have sealed the agreement with a oath of the blood, you don’t know what will bring tomorrow. Dear desperate wife, don’t “help” your husband to make children. Do not play God. Do not let your heart oversee your head just because you are only convinced you can save it from its infertility situation. There are other ways and means.

Question 2: What happens if a woman becomes Berserk why is it erroneously accused?

Uncle Tunji (not asking for his surname) accused his wife of importing the only son of their marriage to his ex -boyfriend’s loins. According to Uncle Tunji, “I am sorry to date by accusing my wife of having brought home a bastard. No, we didn’t have a DNA test that said that the boy was not mine. I had warned him several times to cut all the ties with his ex, but she continued to see him, saying that they were dating purely linked to the business. In some way, I started to see a similarity between him and my son. I started playing with my mind, but I was too angry to recognize that I was only bad. Judging me.

Guys, they do not accuse a faithful woman of infidelity or commutation of the father. You are not allowed to test DNA with your eyes. It could ruin everything. Do not join the multitude of DNA to hurt.

Question 3: What happens if the “dad of the house” refuses to let the children go to their “real dads”?

I have heard some men say that they will never release children who have loved and raised to some strange sperm donors and I can see where they come from. I don’t envy them. Waking up only one morning and finding that your child is no longer your son or that your daughter is now the daughter of your shepherd. Who wants to be in their shoes? But then, what does the law on custody say in that situation? What does tradition say about who is a father in a child’s life? In the same way that Uncle Tunji’s wife became spiritual when she was accused of the commutation of her father, isn’t it also possible for a father and husband deceived and robbed to go to the extreme pain and disappointment? What if he had the Whithal to take away the child or children, far away, in Australia, away from the Sperm donor? This is Nigeria, you know, in which the porous boundaries will cancel the custody ordered by the court. What if the children were grown and can decide who want to stay with? Doesn’t this raise another series of posters? Why will they choose who choose?

Then, finally, in this season of Japa and the transfer, what happens if two “brothers” end up dating in Canada, thousands of miles from where their “parents” have changed their fathers and a daughter is impregnated by her brother? What then?

Whether it is only one child who has been sneaked in the house or four or all the children of the house have different fathers, this DNA problem has only worsened a marriage institution already besieged and threatened and I wonder if the relapse of discovering the real paternities worth it or I am only adopting an attitude of evasion? I wonder if it is better to leave the sleeping dogs lying. Sometimes, lies are kinder than truth and some secrets should be kept forever. I’m right or right?

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