By Lillian Okenwa

Echoes of Trauma: The People You Can Never Please

Listen when correction is warranted. Change when change is necessary. But don’t keep tearing yourself apart to win the approval of someone who has already decided you will never be enough. Some people will tell you the truth about yourself, even when you’d rather not hear it. They will point out your blind spots, challenge your behavior, and sometimes tell …

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